I’m a mess, and usually, organizing things helps me out.
But I’ve always thought I’ve been a mood reader, never needing or wanting a monthly TBR to “dictate” what I read that month. I read things based on what I was in the mood to read in, what I was interested, what was currently available to me.
BUT NOW I’M QUESTIONING EVERYTHING????
My Pride month TBR was SUCH a success for me, a person who had never really done well at TBRs, and I questioned everything I ever knew about myself (as a reader). This was also when I was slumping, and having a TBR for the month actually got me to read.
But then last month, I tried doing a TBR, and it half failed. And this month, I have another TBR, but I’m moving really slowly through books that I’m not in the mood for and flying through books I AM in the mood for.
SO??? I’m just very confused???
But that’s why today I wanted to discuss the pros and cons of mood reading vs. setting a monthly TBR, and talk about which one I’m more successful at! This has always been something I’ve wanted to discuss and now, after I’m spiraling into a crisis, I’ve decided to finally do it!!!
- You can read what you want when you want. Mood reading is reading what you’re in the mood to read; essentially, what you WANT to read. And you can do it WHEN you want too! (Instead of like, forcing yourself to wait a month to read other books.) And I know that often books on monthly TBRs ARE books you want to read, but just not at the moment. So timing is really important and mood reading gives you a lot of freedom!
- You’re more likely to enjoy the book! I mean… you get to read what you want when you want?? You’re definitely at least 2x more likely to like that book than something you’re not in the mood for that’s on your monthly TBR.
- You can kind of easily get out of slumps? Maybe this is just my opinion, but if you’re in a slump, you can get out of it by picking up a book you’re in the mood for. Example: In May, I really wasn’t feeling in the mood for any book in general, so I decided to reread the PJO series (which I’d been wanting to reread for a long time) and voila. Out of the slump.
- ARCs will be hard to read. I’m facing this problem right now: I have a whole bunch of ARCs to read but I just… don’t want to read them at the moment?? Two books were available at my library that I’ve been wanting to read for a long time and I had to check them back in because I have to read THESE STUPID ARCS. (And often, enjoyment of those ARCs goes down when you’re not in the mood for it.)
- If you’re not in the mood for it, you’ll probably end up disliking the book. This kind of goes with the above point, but just with books in general. If, for whatever reason, whether it be for something like reviewing or school, you have to read a book that you’re not in the mood for, your enjoyment of it will go down considerably, ESPECIALLY if you’re used to mood reading.
- You can slump easily. I mean. This con is just the direct opposite of the last pro, but it’s true!! You can get in and out of slumps easily with mood reading, or at least in my opinion. If you read a few books in a row that you’re totally not in the mood for: You’re done. It’ll turn into a slump.
SETTING MONTHLY TBRS
- Books you HAVE to read… get read. This is good! Especially with things like ARCs that you have to read and review before the release date—putting them on your TBR for the month and following that TBR often means that you will read them and be able to get that review up in time.
- You can plan out buddy reads! Whenever I want to buddy read with a friend, I have to know when (and what) I’m reading. Monthly TBRs definitely help out with that*, especially if you plan on BRing more than one book! I know some superhuman people like Melanie @ Mel to the Any have a whole monthly TBR set with people to buddy read all the books with. WHICH IS SO COOL.
- Sometimes you can end up motivating yourself to read more? I don’t know if this is a me thing, but sometimes with TBRs, if I’m successful at following them, I can plan on reading a lot of books and ACHIEVE that. And as someone who always wants to read more, I really like that. (Of course, this depends on a whole lot of factors but it’s still a nice pro??)
*There are times where two mood readers might be in the mood to read the same book and be able to buddy read that book, though! It’s definitely happened to me.
- You don’t get to read the books you want to. Okay, I know that most of the books on your monthly TBR are probably books that you theoretically want to read. But they might not be ones you want to read NOW. Or maybe you want to read other books more. And you don’t get to read those other books (unless you want to ignore TBR. which is cool too).
- Sometimes you… end up FORCING yourself to read books. This pretty much goes hand in hand with the first con, but a lot of the time, there are books on monthly TBRs that you HAVE to read by a specific date (like ARCs). Again, they may not be books you want to read at the moment. But you end up forcing yourself to read those books by the deadline, and I mean, forcing yourself to do anything is painful.
- It can be really pressuring. I’m all for reading for the pleasure, not the pressure*, and while TBRs can be pressuring in a good way (like the Goodreads reading challenge is for me), sometimes, IT’S TOO MUCH. Just earlier this month I was starting to really panic about all the ARCs I had to read and had to take a lot of deep breaths to calm myself.
*I THOUGHT THIS SOUNDED SO CLEVER IN MY HEAD but now that I write it out it doesn’t seem to make much sense.
WHICH IS BETTER FOR ME?
Honestly? I have no idea. After my Pride TBR being such a success for me*, I know I’m not a complete mood reader anymore. But going through what I am right now with the issue of not being in the mood to read the ARCs I need to and really struggling to read them, I know I’m not someone who can completely rely on monthly TBRs.
So I guess this means I get the best of both worlds, but I also get twice the cons as well!!!! ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,cAmazing!!!
I think my style of reading is more like… “read books on a monthly TBR but must be in the mood for those books otherwise the TBR crashes and burns and there is no chance of it succeeding the way it’s supposed to”. God, is that better or worse????
Even though I’m not certain what I work well with, I think that it’s important to figure it out, if you want to read as many books as you can! (And I do want that.) Knowing if you’re a mood reader, or a person who works well with monthly TBRs, or someone who needs a mix of both—that can really help you decide how to approach reading and get the most out of it.**
(Or maybe you’re someone who does better with neither mood reading nor monthly TBRs?? HOW DOES THAT WORK.)
And another thing to make this all even more complicated is that I think almost all readers (or at least bloggers) have to do a bit of both? I mean, if you have a 10-book TBR for the month full of books you’re not in the mood to read at all, that’s going to either be a 1 and 2-star reading month, or just completely flop.
And if you check out books from the library or have ARCs to read, you have to make sure you read them before your deadline, so they’re at least on a mini TBR for the week or month?
Obviously, you’re going to have one thing that’s better for you than the other. But I think we all have a LITTLE bit of both in us.
(I’M JUST MAKING THINGS MORE COMPLICATED I’LL SHUT UP NOW.)
*The books on my Pride TBR WERE books that I’d been really excited to read for months, though, so maybe that excitement influenced something??? I DON’T KNOW. This is giving me a headache.
**I… literally sound like I’m an annoying salesperson trying to sell you reading. What the heck.
what about you? are you a mood reader or do you do better with monthly TBRs? or are you like me and need a mix of both? (OR MAYBE YOU DON’T DO EITHER, IN WHICH CASE PLEASE TELL ME HOW)
p.s. for some reason I had A LOT of fun writing this post? I mean I usually have fun writing all my posts but this one was like. an overload of fun. should I find more things to do pros and cons about + a discussion, and if so, what topics would you like??