It’s My 2-Year Blogiversary!! // Me Being a Sap, Shoutouts to the Friends Who Made My Year, and Some… Promises

So… hi. I’ve officially been blogging for two years.

It feels so weird to be saying that?? Like one year was HUGE to me, and somehow, two is even larger? I mean, obviously, because two years is longer than one, but it feels like I took a big leap from my first to second year of blogging and I just feel so in awe that I’m still here.

I think this year with blogging has been the most impactful on me. Yes, there’s only one other year to compare it to, and yes, there could be so many more impactful years of blogging, but I feel like my first year was me flying, and my second was just falling.

I just. have a lot of thoughts about this day. It makes me happy, it makes me nostalgic, and it makes me bittersweet. Because this last year of blogging, while amazing, has been horrible, yet also exciting, and just makes me feel… a bunch of emotions.

But!!! I’m going to keep the negativity for the end of this post (it couldn’t be helped I’m sorry) and be more positive!!! Because I am so proud of myself for making it this far and I just want to CELEBRATE my achievements!!!! I love you all so much!!!!!!

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(stolen from what I did last year for my one year blogiversary!)

  • …made new friends! expanded my cult!!! This year I joined two other social media platforms (birdy platform and aesthetic platform) and met a lot of cool new people and I’m really glad about it! Even though I absolutely abhor socializing with new people in real life, I LOVE doing it online and I’m so glad I got to do more of it this year.
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  • …read absolutely amazing books. I read so many new favorites this year, including ones that I can’t wait to reread! I’ve become more familiar with my taste in books, and I’ve also read a lot of amazing diverse books that represented me and they all mean the world and more to me.
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  • …found a happy place. The last year sucked a lot for mental health reasons, and I really needed a place to escape from my head and all the thoughts in it. And the blogging community, the book community in general, was that place, and I’m so thankful for it.
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  • …was inspired. This honestly applies to a LOT, but I feel like I get so many recs (book, music, TV, etc.) from other bloggers. And I also just get so inspired hearing about what other people are doing. Like I LOVE hearing about people’s WIPs, and there are so many cool things that bloggers do that I want to do!!
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  • …grown! I’ve grown because of other aspects of my life, but blogging this year has really helped me so much. Blogging has taught me so many things, from simple lessons like I have the hardest times reading eARCs to other lessons like having to grow and move on from backlash. I know it’ll only teach me more, and I’m eternally grateful for it.

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STATS & THANK YOU!!

Like I did last year, I will be putting stats in spoiler tags so you can click it if you want to see it, or keep it closed if you don’t! This is purely just for me, and though looking at my stats this past year can be discouraging to me (which I will talk about later but POSITIVITY FIRST), I do generally like to look back on all stats because I’m a nerd!

stats!
  • 85,487 views (I’m lowkey tearing up as I write this)
  • 26,249 visitors
  • 15,716 comments
  • 16,415 comments
  • 1,656 WordPress followers + 29 email followers

 

Image result for love reaction imageBut I will be continuing my tradition of doing little thank-you shoutouts to some bloggers who have made my year worth it!! I have met some of the best people on here and I love you all so so much and I’m genuinely grateful for everyone. Your support has meant the world to me and I honestly would not keep blogging without it.

With that said, here are the shout-outs!!

Ju, it hurts me to say it but I love you a lot and appreciate you so much. you’re always there for me and I can just text you the most random stuff and you GET me – Mel, precious angel none of us deserves? you are one of the sweetest, most hilarious people I know and your friendship and support has meant the world to me – Elise, you’re so supportive of me always? you’re continually someone I look up to and you’re just so funny and amazing at everything (especially your WRITING) – May, you are an amazing person and you need to believe it!! thanks for being the best writer to exist and also hitting me with way too much sap and letting me be taller than you – Lily, listen I know we hate to say it but… I love you, you’re so kind and too pure for this world, and also one of the most eloquent people I know?? stop being so good for us!!! – Chaima, you do everything so exceptionally and I think half of us aspire to be you? talking to you has been so much fun and you make me smile so much!! – Ilsa, I’m so excited to see what this year brings with you and your blogging and your writing! you’re such an inspiring person and I always have the best time talking to you – Emma, I don’t know how you manage to be the most supportive person ever but you do. you’re hilarious and unfairly talented and you’re an absolute sunshine I love you!!! – Marie, #1 supporter from the start. you’re one of the purest, sweetest people I know and your endless love for everyone is just so amazing. plus you’re a blogging goddess!!- Fadwa, my gay mentor!! also prettiest person alive and no one can argue with me. you are so inspiring, and you’ll always be someone I continue to look up to – Elizabeth, you always have the sweetest most supportive things to say to me and it means everything!! (and I love how passionate you are about Hamilton) – Dezzy, you are such a kind, loving person, and I don’t get how?? you’re always supportive and I have so much fun talking to you (AND I PROMISE, EMMA MILLS) – Tiffany, I know we haven’t talked TOO much yet, but I’m so looking forward to chatting more and getting closer (and buddy reading all the books)!

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PROMISES

So… I’m going to get a little bittersweet here.

This last year of blogging, as I’ve talked about and you’ve probably noticed, I’ve been horrible at actually talking to everyone?? I posted somewhat consistently, and I read blog posts, and I read the comments you all left on my blog posts. But I never commented on any of your blog posts, never replied to the sweet, kind comments you left, never actually interacted with you.

Or at least, I didn’t do it as much as I did my first year. And I think what sucks is that my first year of blogging was just so… successful? Like obviously, I’m so happy about everything I accomplished that year (even though I look back on old posts and CRINGE).

But I’ve always been a comparer—I compare myself to a lot of people, in order to make me feel better myself. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t; either way, it’s not a very healthy thing for me to do. And now I compare my blogging this past year to blogging my first year, and I did… a lot better in my first year.

   

(Of course there were a lot of factors to take into account, like the fact that I prioritized blogging over everything else, which made my mental health suffer, but this past year, my mental health sucked on its own without blogging pressure and made me not want to interact BUT I’m not going to get into that!!!)

And honestly? It’s not just the numerical stats, like views and likes, though those did worsen this past year. It’s the comments—there are so many more in my first year because I actually TALKED to you guys and it hurts to think back on how fantastically I just sucked at doing that this past year. (It literally jumped from 12K to 3K. I…)

And the biggest thing that gets me is that you all continued to support me so much even when I didn’t do the same. And that makes me so SAPPY, like wow you all are so good to me how do I even deserve you???

Reflecting back on that makes me sad, but it also makes me so determined not to let it happen again. SO, I’m not going to make any official promises this year, but I will say that I will try my BEST to make sure I actually talk to you guys and leave comments and reply to the ones you leave me. Because I loved doing that. I miss doing that. And I want to do it again.

(Enough with the self-deprecating bittersweet sap I’m sorry!!!)

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LOTS OF GOOGLE FORMS!

To attempt to end this on a happier note, here are just… google forms… I made?? I love them okay!! I know you’re all secretly judging me, but I love them!!

Anyways, my first one is one I always love doing: my feedback survey! If you want to take a minute or two to leave me some positive thoughts or constructive criticism for me and/or my blog, I would really appreciate it! Link is here if you prefer that.

My second google form is my Q&A form!! I’m doing a Q&A to celebrate 2 years of blogging (since that’s the only way I can really celebrate it when I’m BROKE), and if you’d like to leave me a question to answer, you can do that here!!

And finally, this isn’t anything blogiversary-related per se, BUT! I would really love it if any book bloggers reading this could take a few minutes to fill out a survey I made about blogger appreciation! So like… if you want to show ME some blogger appreciation on the official day I hit 2 years of blogging… do it.


shall we chat

when is your blogiversary? who are some blogger friends you love?? did you leave a question for me to answer on my Q&A (or did you fill out any of the other forms)? do you face the same problems as me with interaction??

THANK YOU SO MUCH. I LOVE YOU ALL.

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46 thoughts on “It’s My 2-Year Blogiversary!! // Me Being a Sap, Shoutouts to the Friends Who Made My Year, and Some… Promises

  1. AHH CONGRATULATIONS MAY!!!! I love you so so much, your blog is so gorgeous (please tell me what fonts you used and how you did it) My blogiversary (1st) is 19th February… I’m amazed already, You are simply amazing, please don’t forget that. I answered all the forms (except for the Author questions) and I just thought I’d say some other sappy stuff here.
    You are such an inspiration to me May, I admire and look up to you so much. Your blog design and formatting are always a pleasure to look at and I’ve picked up on so many things because of you. I have no words for how much you mean to me in the blogging world.
    Lots of love, Rhi xxx

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    1. Rhi, this means so much to me!! Thank you with my whole heart for your sweet words ❤ And aahh your blogiversary is coming up soon! That's so exciting, especially since it's your first year! and aahh thank you lots for filling out the forms ❤

      Again, I have no words for how much everything you said means to me. Thank you, always 💘

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      1. It’s always my pleasure May. I can’t wait. The forms were very enjoyable – I’m m thinking of doing some for my blogiversary!!

        You don’t need to. Just know that you have a whole community of people who love you – me at the top of that list. 💖💖💖

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  2. Congratulations, May! 😊❤️ It honestly just warms my heart that you put so much time and thought into making this post, and the feedback survey! It really shows that you care about your audience, and I never thought for a second that you should have interacted more. Blogging is a lot of effort! But you’re very good at it!

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  3. Congratulations omg!!! I’m so glad I found your blog last year, it’s so lovely and I love love love how your personality shines through. Here’s too another year of blogging! You’re doing amazing!

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  4. IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!! you’ve accomplished so much in these past 2 years and like THE HONOUR TO KNOW YOU AND BE YOUR FRIEND and READ your WRITING i cannot put it in words
    anyways, im really happy you commented on my review like 43132 years ago and we talked through awkward gr messages bc i love you a lot you mango

    also i want a refund on this height thing, i dont like it

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  5. congrats congrats congrats on 2 years i always come back to catch up on ur growth and im still so so proud ive commented like 3 times and u haven’t noticed so idk if u remember me but im still so happy for u

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  6. Aahhh May congratulations and happy 2 year blogiversary!! You blogging for two whole years is AMAZING and I’m soooo proud and happy for you 💖 I honestly look forward to every single one of your posts because they make me smile no matter what. (You’re always so entertaining and witty and relatable and I LOVE IT, hehe.) And awww ilysm, thank you so much for the shoutout!! 😭 I genuinely enjoy chatting with you; you’re the best. AND YES ASLKDFJKASJKSK EMMA MILLS. YOU BETTER READ HER BOOKS SOON OR ELSE 👀💕 Foolish Hearts is actually the best contemporary ever written, don’t @ me

    Anyway, congrats again May!! I’m very excited to see how your blog will continue to grow, and will always support you on this blogging journey ☺️❤️

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  7. Congratulations on your two year blogiversary! 😄😄 I’m still new to blogging but yeah, I like to follow and comment on posts just to spread positivity because I know that a comment will make their day and it really is not that hard to dooooo. So knowing that you will be more interactive, even in the slightest way, know that you are spreading positivity 😍😍

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  8. CONGRATS, MAY!!! YAY for two years! But it’s also weird??? Because I remember last year’s one-year anniversary and has it really been a full year since then??? WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE????!!!!
    And, aghhhhhh, I love how you not only gave me a shout out *criiiiiiiieeeeeeessssss* but it’s a HAMILTON REFERENCE??? I am blessed that Hamilton is such a part of my friendships 💕 #luckytobealiverightnow
    And yay for the Q&A though I am truly awful at coming up with questions 😬 WIll have to work on that!
    Love you so much, May!!!

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  9. Congrats!! I loved reading this post! Making blogger friends is definitely the best part. Since I haven’t been following you for long, I didn’t answer the feedback (but I’m liking everything so far and the design looks pretty, too) but I did leave a question and answered the one about bloggers, authors and readers! Can’t wait to see those posts! 🙂

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  10. Happy Blogiversary, May! You’re truly such an inspiration and an amazing blogger, with one of my favourite aesthetics ngl. Also teach me how to make blogger friends because I can’t even 😂 And your stats are absolutely amazing, and I’m glad that blogging has been beneficial to you! Happy reading and blogging!! ❤️❤️

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  11. HAPPY BLOGIVERSARY MAY! I am so, so so, so happy and grateful that you’ve blessed us with your presence on the blogosphere for the past two years, it has been incredible to chat with you every single day and to talk about books and get the best recommendations ever from you and just, everything. I’m honored and emotional to be mentioned on here, thank you so much ahhh 😭😭 it honestly is my pleasure to support you always, you are AMAZING and deserve ALL THE LOVE. ❤
    Here's to many more years of blogging and fun, you're amazing, love you so much, keep on being awesome xx
    Now I'm off to fill alll the surveys – well except for the blogger appreciation one, since I already did 🙂

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  12. First of all congratulations on reaching your two year blogiversary May! 🙂 ❤️ It’s an incredible achievement and I think after the year you had (based on your recaps and all) reaching it is definitely a success. I’d love to see more of you on WordPress again, but obviously your mental health comes first. I ended up in a pretty bad place at the end of the last year and sometimes you do need to take a step back. 🙂
    Still like I said it seems like you had a decent year, and you made it two years so that’s something to be really proud of.
    Great post, and happy blogiversary. 🙂 ❤️

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  13. Happy blogiversary, May! I think despise how last year may be hard, you’ve still accomplished a lot of amazing things! I definitely understand the struggle of interacting; I mean, I love leaving long-ass comments and replying to them, but when it comes to social media, I am a blob. At the end of the day, though, you got the best of blogging, which is making friends! The community is the best part, and it seems like you’ve met a lot of amazing people during these two years, which is so special! 💛
    I hope that blogging continues to be a good part of your life for many years to come!

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  14. Okay, I want to talk about two things! First, you are the sweetest angel and I love you more than words, and I’m always so proud of you, but extra today, and my life is so much better with your friendship in it! Second, I started TFC on your two year blogging anniversary? The universe works in strange and mysterious ways! 💖xx

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  15. HELLO HELLO ❤ I am the worst for commenting on this so late, but HUGS I LOVE YOU!! I'm really looking forward to getting to know you more. I'm so glad that you had an amazing year of blogging and so much growth. Of course, it had it's up and downs but you slay either way 😉

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  16. agdshjsagdhjasgj I’M NEVER TAKING A HIATUS AGAIN. I’M SO MAD AT MYSELF FOR BEING SO LATE TO THIS POST.

    happy, happy blogiversary, sweet love of mine ❤ i will never cease to be impressed with the amazing things you do with this platform/how amazing of a person you are. i truly feel very lucky to know you and i hope you know that i am struggling against my cool, blasé image at every word to write all this sentimental stuff but it's TRUE AND YOU DESERVE TO HEAR IT.

    also……the temptation to compare stats and beat yourself up over it is overwhelming, but like….think of everything you did this year!!! you did so many wonderful, fantastic, impressive things, and one of those things was being able to take a step back from this dumb/soul-sucking/extremely lovely platform & community, and you shouldn't think of that as a failing. sure, maybe some random insignificant numbers were smaller than they were at another time, but like…who cares? your posts have been better than ever, clearly you have more people with more love for you than ever, and like…you aren't a slave to your blog. it's a win/win/win. anyway i'm going to shut up now but ILY. CONGRATS. YOU DESERVE EVERY SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS

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